If you think you may be taking someone for granted, you probably are. You know all that crap about telling someone you love them before they die? It's all true. The definition of being open-minded is simply being open to the possibility that you may be wrong. The only people left in the ghetto are the ones that are being paid to stay there. Have some balls and tell one of your enemies that you don't want to be enemies anymore. There is no present tense. There's only what happened and what's going to happen - so what the hell are you waiting for?